The sixth sense

Myth or reality ? no one will ever be able to know if it is true or not even though some scientific facts claim that women are not that crazy.

It has been around forever and every woman has at least once in her life (if not everyday) creeped out her husband/boyfriend/kids or whoever tried to mess up with her. Women have been gifted with that ability to sense things miles away, waaaaaaaaaaay before men do and waaaaaaay before it is all rotten. We like to pretend that we don’t sometimes so that we can keep on leading our investigations or even until we have enough proofs to make a decision.

I like to think of intuition as God's power in us and for us to warn us from things we are not necessarily aware us or maybe as something more complex like a defense mechanism to protect us and protect our hearts from things that could possibly harm us physically as well as emotionally.

women foresee things before they happen because of that intuition, that thing to sense stuff our mothers used to talk about or that sixth sense as men like to call it. It is that intuition that tells us something is wrong when people are trying to hide things away from us. It is that same intuition that allows us to spot fake people thousand of miles away. And again, it is your intuition that tells you something is wrong or that your Relationship is about to fall apart when the way he looks at you, talks to you, holds you, is not the same anymore.

 

 

It is something innate, something women are wired with, a defense mechanism that is launched automatically when we are frighten by something; when there is an imminent danger we might not even be aware of. But most of the time, we just suppress it in part because we are scared what we suspect might be true. We suppress it because we are scared he might be cheating for real, or might be the end of a relationship which has been our all and everything for years. We deliberately shush our intuition and shut down that mechanism because maybe we are too scared to see the truth, to accept the facts, to walk away, to close a door, to leave behind something that seems to be so perfect but which is in fact just a mirage…

 

Or maybe we shush it because people just won’t stop calling us crazy or paranoid even though there is a huge chunk of truth in what we say hidden somewhere in the mind of the people calling us those names who has he talk are saying: “how the eff does she knows all that? I better be careful” we don’t know: we just feel it and that’s how we roll.

 

 

And then when the truth hits us in the face, we seem shocked, surprised, caught off guard wondering how we didn’t see things coming. But deep down, after countless nights pouring glasses of wine, eating boxes  and boxes of chocolates, using up the full stock of tissues we had while watching Bridget Jones, we realize that we had once been warned that it would all end up this way but we just chose to not listen and pretend we were just being “crazy”.

 

 

 

 

We spend a lot of time looking for answers we already have but are too afraid to accept. We live in a world full of misery, lies, cheaters and dishonest people; looks are deceiving and people’s words are not to be taken for an absolute truth. In such a world, the most powerful and pure tool a women can have to protect herself is her intuition for as Laurenn Martin said “it’s one of the few honest things in our lives.” So go ahead and tune in.